<p>For first-timers, figuring out how to conduct oneself at a funeral can be pretty tricky. Here, we'll let you in on some basic funeral etiquette to keep in mind for your next service! <br /><br /> We&rsquo;ve all been there, it&rsquo;s our first time attending a funeral service and we&rsquo;re at a loss for the right things to say or do. We recognize the solemnity of the occasion, yet we tend to overthink simple things such as whether or not it&rsquo;s appropriate to converse with others or where the proper place to sit is. Fortunately, attending a <a href="/services/traditional-services">funeral service</a> doesn&rsquo;t have to be as tricky as we make it out to be! Here, we&rsquo;ll run through some important tips and suggestions to help you out! When visiting our <a href="/hidden-pages/memorializing-suffolk-va">funeral homes in Suffolk, VA</a> we guarantee you will be impressed by our welcoming and accommodating atmosphere! <br /><br /> <strong>What to Wear</strong><br /> Getting dressed for a traditional funeral service is easy, as most require all-black and formal attire. While this can vary from funeral to funeral, if not clearly stated then we suggest playing it safe and assuming the dress code to be traditional. We also suggest opting for conservative attire and avoiding items of clothing that are revealing as this can draw unnecessary attention in your direction, rather than toward the solemnity of the service. Additionally, avoid including bright colors altogether, as again, we don&rsquo;t want to cause any unnecessary distractions! <br /><br /> <strong>Where to Sit</strong><br /> For those who have never been to a <a href="/about/our-blog/post?postId=e3275751-4850-4d04-9606-c8cceffcd5cb">funeral service</a> before, listen up! When figuring out where you will be sitting you will have to keep in mind that the first two rows toward the front are typically reserved for immediate family. If you find that you are running late to the service, then be sure to enter quietly and use the side aisle when selecting a seat so as not to distract the congregation. We recommend sitting in one of the first seats available to you toward the back to avoid any disruption. <br /><br /> <strong>What to Say</strong><br /> Figuring out the right things to say at a funeral service can be uncomfortable and even awkward. While you want to <a href="/resources/funeral-etiquette">express your condolences</a>, you also don&rsquo;t want to be chatting it up the whole time. To combat this dilemma, a good option is to give the immediate family a simple expression of your condolences. Keep in mind that less is more! <br /><br /> <strong>When to Arrive</strong><br /> When arriving at a funeral, we want to avoid strolling in late, as this can be viewed as a sign of great disrespect. To stay on the safe side, it&rsquo;s a good idea to arrive around 10 to 15 minutes early. Additionally, if you do find you are running late, keep our previous tip in mind and use the side aisle to find a seat toward the back. <br /><br /> <strong>What to Bring</strong><br /> While it is not absolutely required that you come to the service prepared with a gift, it can be a nice touch. A safe option is to bring a bouquet of funeral roses. You can also choose to have these flowers delivered to the immediate family&rsquo;s home if you don&rsquo;t wish to travel with them. If you want to bring something other than flowers, some good suggestions include a sympathy card or a meal delivered to the family&rsquo;s home. When checking out funeral homes in Suffolk, VA be sure to stop in!</p>