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R.W. Baker & Co. Funeral Home and Crematory- Downtown Suffolk
Sunday March 13th, 2022
2:00pm - 3:30pm

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Funeral Service

R.W. Baker & Co. Funeral Home and Crematory- Downtown Suffolk
Monday March 14th, 2022
1:00pm

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Monday March 14th, 2022
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Bryant Thomas Defonseca

Bryant Thomas Defonseca, 55, passed away on Sunday, March 6, 2022. He was born in Rhode Island to Ronald Defonseca and Jacqueline Nailor (Robert).

He is survived by his loving wife of 32 years, Julie Defonseca; son, Shane Defonseca (Courtnie); daughter, Alissa Novotny (Paul); grandchildren, Grace Defonseca and Owen Novotny; siblings, Ronald Morin (Dawn) and Robyn Eaton (Tom); goddaughter, Jessica O’Dell (Scott) and godgrandaughter, Willow O'Dell; nephews, Michael Knapp, Elijah knapp, Alex knapp and Richard Knapp; and many nieces, nephews and other loving family members.

After graduating from Woodstock Academy, Bryant enlisted in the United States Navy, worked through the ranks and retired as a Chief Culinary Specialist. He then pursued a career at Plasser American and after many years grew to become the Purchasing Manager. He was a kind, loving, and selfless husband, and always encouraged his children to be the best they could be. He was never without a witty joke that was enjoyed by all. In his free time, he enjoyed spending time with friends and family and the peacefulness of his home in the countryside. 

A funeral service will be held at R.W. Baker Funeral & Co., 509 W. Washington St. Suffolk, Va., Monday, March 14, at 1:00pm. Family will receive friends on Sunday, March 13, at the funeral home from 2:00-3:30pm. Interment will follow his funeral service at Holly Lawn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, the family requests memorial contributions in his name be made to the charity of your choice. R.W. Baker & Co. Funeral and Crematory is serving the family. Online condolences may be registered at RWBakerFH.com.


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I grew up with Bryant and his brother Ron in Woodstock Valley, CT in the 70s. We had the kind of adventures together you dream about as boys; building forts in the woods, riding our bikes around the lake and all the secrete little trails and paths we knew about, fishing, camping and cooking over a fire, playing baseball and football, listening to music, sneaking apples from the nearby orchard. Looking back on them, our adventures together were almost like lost chapters from Huckleberry Finn… But none of it would have been so magical without the spirit inside each of us that brought out the joy and discovery of life together as young boys.

Bryant, or as I knew him, "Bry" was the guy you always wanted to be around. His kind heart and happy nature made everyone feel like he was a brother. I'm 58 now and haven't seen Bry since we were still just boys getting ready to take the next step in life. I dearly hoped to see him again like I did only recently with Ron. I loved Bry…. Who wouldn't, ya know? I'm very lucky I got to grow up with such good soul. We spent day after day together as kids, at his house, or mine or one of the other kid's houses in the Valley. I have nothing but the fondest of memories of my boyhood pal and will forever be grateful that I got to grow up with him and call him my friend.

God bless you Bry - your old pal, Ken

Ken Wolslegel Mar 14 2022 12:53 PM

Bryant while our time together was not long, you became a person I looked up to and a friend. You will truly be missed.

Kathy Monson Mar 14 2022 8:28 AM

A candle was lit in memory of Bryant Defonseca

Kathy Monson Mar 14 2022 8:27 AM

Julie, I just found out about Smurf. I'm so sorry. Deepest condolences to you and the rest of the family. He's going to be missed by many. It's been years since we've seen each other but he's never been forgotten. Until we meet again, Godspeed my brother.

Carl Rabehl(former shipmate on the T.R.) Mar 13 2022 8:00 PM

Bryant is another "Plasser Man" that will be sorely missed! We were colleagues, NAVY vets and I'd like to say friends. He had a great spirit and wit! He was ALWAYS there to assist with anything in any way he could.
Condolences to his family. He is gone way too soon but lives on in all of you!
Until we meet again brother!

Jim Rusho Mar 13 2022 7:43 PM

Bryant Defonseca .
You have been like a brother to me and taken wonderful care of my sister . You were one to look up to and admire.
Your presence is going to be missed and the children will carry memories of time spent with you as they share parts if your story with the next generation of Defonseca's , Knapp's and related adopted family members .
It was me first sir , I will always carry a good thought about you BRB , always loved you even if we saw the world and choices differently .

Ray & Kris Knapp Mar 13 2022 1:25 PM

Julie-
My sincere condolences to you and your children. Sending prayers for peace & comfort in memories of a life well lived

Robin Spagnuolo Mar 12 2022 10:20 PM

As my Plasser colleagues have all alluded, Bryant was truly a good guy. He has that rare ability to make anyone's day better. A laugh, a joke, just a positive person. I would.like to dedicate the 2 o'clock coffee to Bryant, a coffee connoisseur.

Dan Boone Mar 12 2022 8:41 PM

I have worked with Bryant over 13 years, and he was more than a colleague, I considered him family. A great person to have known. He will be largely missed.

Beth Dail & Michael Baker Mar 12 2022 3:38 PM

A candle was lit in memory of Bryant Defonseca

Lynn & David Coker Mar 12 2022 12:27 PM

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